Friday, 10 July 2009

The Cycle Of ..

Love? Relationships.. listen as I express and explain my pain

Behind every bitch is a player that made her that way.

Behind every player is a bitch that made him that way…

I could be brief and end there, those with wisdom would understand the rest...

So if you already know what I mean, you can STOP reading here.

Have you ever sat down to think what if this is a cycle?

Okay listen, let me explain.

LOVE is becoming a very sad topic to speak of especially with teens in the UK. If some one has had their Heart Destroyed, not broken because what is broken can be fixed but what is destroyed is lost…Broken. Then starts a relationship with someone else hoping they can fill in the space of whatever BITCH broke their heart they inevitably are about to break someone Else's. You don't learn how to love it comes naturally like knowing Good or Bad. When that relationship starts you light up that partners world but you still follow along in hope of falling in love, eventually you end it because you can't take knowing that this person is falling for you more and more whilst your heart still won't open up you feel you are doing something wrong and your conscience tells you this, so much so that in the end for that persons sake and your peace of mind you end this Relationship "Fling".

Then you wallow in your self-pity whilst that partner who loves you feels crushed, now depending on how long you lasted that feeling of being crushed might hurt them enough to destroy their hearts. If so, they now start the cycle: Single-In a Relationship. Then eventually they find out they can't be healed by anyone else but the person that done this to them, but.

How do you expect them to even dare trust the one that hurt them again? Even if that person has greater feelings towards them than they did before (not necessarily love because they can not love but feelings all the same...) How can they believe it or go back there. So when they refuse to go back they are stuck with this destroyed heart, yet if they do go back it still will not heal because the love isn't how it was at the start, just a lot of distrust and uncertainty. Or the cycle happens all over again because once a cheat always a cheat or if it's in their characteristics when they have something they would take it for granted, even when that happens the destroyed hearted is still not phased because in a way the expected it but hopelessly went back there saying they love the person not being able to face the fact their heart can't love but clinging on to the memory of the last love they had and hoping it last.

Anyway, I guess you get the point. Take Time. Drop your comments

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